Book Discussion Questions: Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty

Big Little Lies book coverTitle: Big Little Lies
Author:  Liane Moriarty
Page Count: 460 pages
Genre: Contemporary fiction
Tone: Darkly humorous, relatable, chatty

Summary:
Follows three mothers, each at a crossroads, and their potential involvement in a riot at a school trivia night that leaves one parent dead in what appears to be a tragic accident, but which evidence shows might have been premeditated.

SPOILER WARNING:
These book discussion questions are highly detailed and will ruin plot points if you have not read the book.

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1. How would you describe this book to someone?

2. Did you relate to one of the characters the most?

3. Who did you think was going to die? Who did you think was the murderer?

4. Why do you think the author chose to include snippets of the reporter’s interviews throughout the book? What purpose do you think she hoped it would serve? Do you think it was effective?

5. What are some of the themes in the book?

6. What do you think Moriarty was trying to say about bullying? Were the acts of the children bullying any different than the stuff going on with the adults? Was one more or less harmful?

7. Do you think Madeline is oversensitive or is she justified in the fights she gets in?

8. Why did you think Celeste wanted to leave Perry at the beginning?

9. There is violence in Jane’s life and violence in Celeste’s life. Is there (or was there) violence in Madeline’s life?

10. Women and their looks are discussed a lot in the book. Do you think this obsession with looks is specific to women, particularly women of a certain age?   Why or why not? Do you think there was an overall message being said?

11. “It was like wealth was an embarrassing medical condition. It was the same with Celeste’s beauty. Strangers gave Celeste the same furtive looks they gave to people with missing limbs…” (pg 32). Does this happen in real life?

12. Why do you think everyone was so quick to suspect Ziggy?

13. What did you think when Jane started suspecting her own son? Why did you think she did? Why don’t you think the other parents didn’t suspect their kids?

14. Did you think Ziggy was the bully? Did you think he was being bullied? Did you suspect it was really Max? Was it believable how he took the fall?

15. Did you ever suspect Saxon Banks was Perry? When did you begin to suspect?

16. Did you suspect Tom was not, in fact, gay? Were you glad for Jane?

17. Jane starts the book being nauseous at the thought of having any other relationships. Why was she able to start something with Tom?

18. Was Madeline joking with her phrase, “never forgive, never forget?” Does she change throughout the book?

19. How did you like Bonnie? Did Madeline’s reaction to her make you like her more or less?

20. Celeste and Madeline are so different. Why do you think they ended up becoming and staying such good friends?

21. Did it surprise you that Celeste would try to fight back?

22. Is the fact that Perry travels so much really the reason why they never ended up working on fixing their marriage?

23. Did trivia night meet your expectations?

24. What did you think of the teacher? Did that change throughout the book?

25. Bonnie says, “We see. We… see!” (p. 421) Were you surprised to learn about Bonnie’s history?  Were you surprised to discover that all along Max had been seeing what Perry was doing to Celeste?

26. Moriarty tackled so many subjects– among them bullying, spousal abuse, problems with their marriages, dealing with traumas from the past, beauty. Did it work? Why add so many? Was it too much?

27. “All conflict can be traced back to someone’s feelings getting hurt, don’t you think?” do you think that’s true?

28. What genre would you call this book?

29. Is this a realistic look at motherhood?

30. Do you think you have to have had kids going to school to get the full effect of the book?

31. Are the issues in Big Little Lies exclusive to upper middle class families?

OTHER RESOURCES:

Reading Group Guide
Penguin Book Club discussion questions
Audio Interview with Moriarty at the Sydney Writers’ Festival
HBO series update
Big Little Lies book club hosting ideas

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